According to AARP, this is a common scam that has cost grandparents millions of dollars. Unfortunately, the tax rules don’t help in any way. The deduction for a theft loss—assuming such scam is a theft under state law—cannot be claimed in 2018 through 2025.
Payments within one tax year of the entire amount due to a participant in a qualified retirement plan. Qualifying lump sums may be directly rolled over tax free, or, in some cases, are eligible for current tax under a favorable averaging method.